Three most important things in your life

Xin said yesterday that she expresses herself best through dance, and asked me if architecture is the same for me. I said no, architecture is to me realisation. To me, architecture helps me to realise what our world ought to be. It doesn't say very much about how I feel. So, to me:

My most important way of expressing myself is through love.
My most important way of realising myself is through architecture.
And my most important way of fulfilling myself is through singing.

This got us asking the family what their important things are. For Feeyoon, it's family, health and blessing. For Xin, it's love and balance. There's no third thing - this would break the balance. Cool, I thought. What are yours?